Who is your ideal client?

Many times when a person decides to start a business, they never think about their ideal clients. I mean really think about them and write out the characteristics of them. You tend to focus on starting a facebook page, having a pretty logo and starting to sell. And when you have done all of this and then get no sales, there is a huge uproar. One of the reasons, (and by no means is this the only reason) you are getting no sales is because you are trying to sell to EVERYBODY even though everybody does not need or want what you are selling. You have this false belief that your product/service is so great that everybody will rush to purchase. This is so false and actually many business close after 1 year in business not because their product/service was horrible but simply because they did not take the time to fine tune who they wanted to serve.

What is an ideal client?

An ideal client is that person who needs what you have. They do not question your price and they are seeking out a solution for a problem and they know you can solve their problem. Your ideal client is a sweetheart and sometimes called a soul mate client because they understand and appreciate your product or service. They also recommend you to others and give you glowing testimonials all the time. Sometimes they do not even realise they need you until they have used your product/service but once they do there is no turning back. An ideal client buys from you over and over and over again! Sounds perfect right?

But why is it important to find them?

Once you know who your ideal client is, it is sooo much easier to share value and sell everyday. They want to soak up the information that you are sharing. Knowing your ideal client means you speak directly to a person who wants to buy from you. They know, like and trust you and they become your brand ambassadors. Knowing them also means that you save time, money and resources. It also means that your marketing and sales efforts are more focused and fine tuned so you can sell more and work less (almost ideal!)

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But where do I find them?

This is the part where the ball drops. You have to go looking for them. You have to ask around. You have to look at the people who have bought from you before or who are buying similar products and services to yours. You have to pay close attention to what people are saying and consuming in the industry. Most coaches and marketing gurus will give you a simple exercise to complete which speaks specifically to the demographic of your ideal client. For example,

  1. Are they married, single, divorced or widowed?
  2. Are they male or female?
  3. Do they have children and how many?
  4. What is their household income?
  5. What is their disposable income?

These questions really tackle the basic information about your client. And they are important because a single woman spends money differently and her priorities are different to a married woman with 3 children. You have to identify these basic qualities so you can understand what is important to them and why they buy.

In addition, you look at where they live, where they spend their time both online and offline, the brands they follow and the people who they consider influencers. Why? Because you need to be wherever they are everyday!

But a great sales person needs to know about the emotional parts of their clients. What makes them tick? What keeps them up at night? What can’t they live without? How do you find these answers? You simply ask people who have bought from you; who have expressed interest in your product or service or who you know need what you have to offer!

What do I do when I find them?

When you have narrowed down exactly who needs you and how they need you then you start to share value. You pay close attention to the language they use when they are speaking about the problem they are experiencing. You talk directly to them about their problems using the exact words they use (psychology of selling!) and share how you can help them sleep better at night. Give value everyday and ask for the sale.

Where do I start?

Start by writing it out. Get it out of your head and write out the exact features of your ideal clients until you have created a persona that you can actually visualize. It helps to also give your ideal client avatar a name. But remember, you can also have more than 1 ideal client based on where they are in your buyers journey. So keep plotting away until you narrow down exactly who they are and how you are helping them. In a previous post- Stop Living in a Ghost Town I shared some useful tips about how to engage your ideal clients consistently.

And if you still need help, then contact me for a FREE 30 minute consultation and let’s get to work identifying your ideal client.






Stay connected to get more sales

I know the one thing most entrepreneurs have in common is the need to increase sales. That is the number 1 request I get when I start to work with a new client. And many of them expect me to advise them to do a big sale, create a flier and post it all over the place and then they are very disappointed when I give them my simple answer. To get more sales you need to stay connected. Simply put, it means that you have to be at the heart beat of the action and become part of the conversation. Here are some simple ways to stay connected to get more sales:

1. Respond to others.

Spend at least 45 minutes every morning and evening responding to other people’s questions. I know this may be challenging so some but it is very effective to get eyes on your profile. You see every time, you comment or add your opinion to some one else’s post, if they don’t know you they will check your profile. Others will start to respond under your respond and more than likely also check your profile.


2. Ask relevant questions.

This forms part of your market research (something we spoke about in an earlier post- Are you doing your research). Asking questions will help you get a better understanding of your audience and allow you to interact with them even more. Make sure that you also respond to their responses so the conversation continues to flow and you build rapport. Research is a key component of building your business as I discussed here in my video- Why market research is so important  


3. Share valuable information on your social media platforms

that you know your ideal clients want. It may be an article, a video or some training. But you are not just dropping a link and running…oh no…you are sharing and telling them why you are sharing it and asking for their opinion about what you are sharing.


4. Give them a reason to connect.

This is where a great opt-in comes into play. An ebook, training programme, swipe file or cheat sheet etc are some great ways to connect and get more sales. By giving them what they want through an opt-in you add them to your email list and then you can continue the conversation after they have received it. Just make sure what you are sharing is what they really want and continue sharing more after they have opt-in. I am ready to Crush my Email


5. Speak at events or host an event.

This is the tried and true way to stay connected. Speaking to an audience is going back to basics before we had the internet and it is still one of the best ways to stay connected. People remember what you say and the feeling they had when they hear you share your story. Connecting with clients on this level is a great way to get more sales because it increases your level of authenticity. group photo


6. Reach out to clients

New and old. Make it a habit to stay connected to clients even after they have bought from you because there is a higher chance that once they were satisfied they would buy from you again. Whether by phone, email, text etc, staying connected with people who have already done business with you always leads to sales, referrals and more


Connecting should be a way of life for any entrepreneur because it is part of the life blood of your business. It is tied to your visibility and your sales. It is tied to your marketing and promotions. As an entrepreneur you have to stay connected, continue to build more connections and stay relevant to your audience as you continue to grow your business. Connecting is the long game to your own success.


Still looking for a great way to connect? We are waiting for you in here.

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How to sell without selling

Time and time again we see businesses especially on social media post ad after ad about their product or service. They get one or two likes and no responses and worse yet nobody buys their product or service. They get depressed, despondent and throw their hands in the air and say that nobody wants to buy from them.

You want to know the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?

They are selling the wrong way!!! That is what it actually boils down to.

How many times have I heard that people want to be taught not sold to. As entrepreneurs we have to understand the buying habits of clients are changing. They are in search of information because they want to make informed choices. Many times cost is not the biggest factor even though it may be a factor. But their trust in you and belief that you can actually solve their dilemma is the reason they will buy from you. If you can get them from Point A to Point B!

You do this by showing up and showing them how you can help. Give them details about your products or services. Show them the lifestyle they can have if they buy from you. Give them valuable information consistently so you will be positioned in their minds as the go to person for that particular product or service whether you have the highest price or the cheapest price.

Create opportunities both online and offline where you can talk about your business and the benefits to your ideal clients so that they know, like and trust you. Start selling the right way and you will not only get new clients but you will get recurring clients wanting to buy from you and referring you to others repeatedly. Your clients will become your own walking billboard because they have that much faith and trust in you.

Look at some of the leading brands that you follow. Examine closely their online and offline presence and many times you will see that they ‘sell’ you on how your life will be better. How your life will be improved by buying their product or service. They show you how their products are used and ensure that you know the benefits of choosing them over a competitor.

How are you selling to your clients? How are you ensuring that you are positioned as the ‘expert’ in your field? Do you need to master the art of selling without selling? Then you know what to do…book a FREE discovery call with me  and let’s get started